Neil Gaiman said it right. It's horrible and really painful. It kills and takes away a part of your sole. Sometimes entire soul.
Be careful with it.
Don't love someone so much that you don't feel like breathing without them.
'coz things can change and that person can too.
And you are left gasping.
Too painful.
Too heart-wrenching.
It takes away the person's ability to have faith in people.
Basic rule of relationship is "We'll be together and no matter what challenges come we'll always figure a way out and never give up on each other irrespective of how many tides come and go.". Instead these days it has turned into a joke and so easily people call it break-up and shit. One day or one incident and people just are ready to throw it away. They don't look for ways to mend it just because they don't know the value of emotion and time. Life is short and we should not waste either of them because it's not funny. There are lives that are impacted and these experiences are dna changing.
I would like to quote and this is how I feel:
"People say there are other fish in the sea
But I don't think there are, at least not for me
She is my whole ocean, my waves and my breeze
My own coral reef, grains of sand on the beach
No one fish can replace her, nor two fish, nor three."
